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She lived in Madison, Wisconsin, with her loving husband and two children—but she was miserable.

"My husband was a good man, but I was bored inside and out," she says.

When Vanessa Myers*, 28, married her husband six years ago, they both couldn't wait to have children, but after their wedding day something changed for her.

"I started to really love my job, and kids didn't seem to fit into the picture," she says.

"In our community, I always felt like a square peg trying to fit in a round hole." That year, she was in Chicago on business and met Bob, an Australian man, on an elevator. We exchanged numbers, kept in touch, and I decided to fly out to Australia to see him and get him out of my system," she says.

"That was 25 years ago and now I can say that my affair was the turning point in my life's journey.

Silverman stresses the importance of open and honest communication in a relationship as a way for a couple to stay connected—before one of the spouses seeks comfort or intimacy outside of the marriage.

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Her husband was hurt by her change of heart, and began to resent her.

"We started fighting a lot, and I resented him for resenting me and we were just constantly hurting each other," she says.