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Because I know he is doing it because I am not around & he is not emotionally involved with that girl.
In fact I always tell him that I wouldn't mind even if he has a one night stand as far as he doesn't get emotionally involved with any other girl.
I have no problem with strippers, but I am not OK with lapdances while in a relationship as a personal boundary, esp because i live in a state with REALLY lax laws about that kinda stuff so the strippers here are fully nude, and full contact--even touching--is allowed. I actually confirmed this with a close friend who is a stripper.
And I don't see what difference it makes whether it was paid for or not.
It's still getting some sort of sexual gratification from someone who is not your significant other.
He goes to a strip club once in a while & sometimes even gets a lap dance. The best part, I feel nothing wrong or bad about it.
I know men have needs & I understand they need to be satisfied.
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It's still getting some sort of sexual gratification from someone who is not your significant other. But I would consider my girlfriend masturbating in the presence of a male friend substandard behavior.