Rules for dating your coworker
"If it turns out to be a two-week fling, nobody needs to know about it," says Helaine Olen, coauthor of Office Mate. Olen says coworkers often guess something is going on when one person mentions the other too frequently. John helped with the graphics" or "Where'd you go for lunch?
Oh, John loves that place." But if you were chummy before, don't ignore him now — that draws more attention than the occasional friendly moments does.
No matter how covert you are, people are likely to catch on, but there's no need to broadcast it.
WHEN TO COME CLEAN Most companies are lenient about dating (except between supervisors and their subordinates), says Lois Frankel, Ph D, author of "They recognize its ubiquity." But there may be rules about whom you have to inform and when.
Some tip-offs: If he starts hanging around your work space a lot or asks you to grab lunch or after-work drinks, says Stephanie Losee, coauthor of It's also promising if he's in an unrelated department yet asks your opinion on a project of his — it indicates that he is looking for an excuse to talk to you and values your opinion, notes Losee.Glee costers Lea Michele and Cory Monteith are reportedly dating. Studies show that office romance is on the rise, and over 80 percent of people surveyed for one study say that would probably date a coworker. While some of them might blossom, office romances can be a little shaky, mainly because if things go sour, you're going to have to see this guy every day from 9am to 5pm—awkward.They seem so cute together, but navigating an office romance can be tricky. Plus, the last thing you want is the be the source of gossip at the workplace, and you don't want anything to hinder your work.Obviously, you and Alyssa will not get it on or take any steps in that direction at work, no matter what, even on the weekend or late at night when the office is empty.Sadly I have had to fire a lot of people for that mistake -- an awkward situation for them and for me.
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