When dating but not divorced why
Every person and every divorce and every relationship is different.No one should judge or tell anyone what to do, because they don’t know the whole story. Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and Editor-In-Chief of Divorced Girl Smiling.
Do you date people who are going through a divorce??? If I see "separated" as relationship status on a profile (especially if her profile talks about her 6 month or 1 year old as well) then I'm not talking a chance on her. You need to be in a good place emotionally and happy enough with your own life to share it with someone else.
I know that he will still need to go through a period of mourning, especially once things become more finalized with his divorce.
I would like to know, from your perspective, if this is a period that I should be around for, or if it’s something that he needs to go through alone?
That said, the cheating probably happened because one or both people weren’t happy in the marriage, so again, the decision to separate wasn’t really an overnight decision. You don’t decide to move forward with a divorce, go to court the next week and then sign the papers the week after.
The divorce process can take months, even years, because it is a very very complicated, rollercoaster process where emotions and children and finances collide.